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Me, Myself and I Syndrome

Monday, January 23rd, 2012

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Today I reached my tolerance limit pertaining to those who want, want more, fail to appreciate the time and effort donated, tell you how it should have been done rather than admiring what was done (although they failed to show up when you were asking for their advice)  and overall, choose to criticize what they received for FREE because it isn’t perfect for them or done to their ideal.


I’m going to call it the Me, Myself and I Syndrome. And I’m certain it has reached epidemic proportions and unfortunately, has spilled over into Agility.


Rather than focus on the two incidents that got me started on this topic, I’m going to focus on a few guidelines to help people avoid the Me, Myself and I Syndrome. So here they are:


If You Didn’t Help Build It, Keep Your Opinions To Yourself!

  • This should be obvious, but if for whatever reason you weren’t a part of the project, the sharing of unsolicited opinions will more than likely come across as criticism.
  • This may come as a shock, but please consider that you may not know it all. For example;
  • Each project has a path of development and there are generally reasons why things are the way they are. If you weren’t a part of the project’s creation, you probably weren’t privy to the ‘hows’ and ‘whys’, which means your opinion may have some big holes in it. There’s nothing worse than a know-it-all who doesn’t actually, know it all.
  • Hindsight is revealing, so what may now seem obvious to you once the project is completed, may not have been so obvious during the project’s creation.

FREE Means You Get Whatever Comes Your Way
  • Contrary to popular opinion, criticizing FREE things (work, volunteers, materials, etc.) will NOT make for better or more FREE things to come your way.
  • In fact, it’s been proven that in the future you’ll receive less and will more than likely not even be aware that you inadvertently insulted your FREE resources.
  • If you want it done your way, either 1) do it yourself or 2) pay to have it done.
  • FREE does not create a contract of servitude.
  • FREE is not an indicator that it is appropriate to request more.
  • FREE should not trigger an invitation for unsolicited criticism.
  • FREE means it’s NOT about Me, Myself and I, but rather about Them, Those Guys and Everyone Else.

I’m sure there’s more to be said, but I’m feeling much better for having shared some thoughts on avoiding the Me, Myself and I Syndrome. But I do want to share some great advice.

I’d like to encourage each of you to see and THANK those around you who give even the smallest of efforts. Technically those folks owe you NOTHING, Nada, Zilt, Zilch and therefore anything they do is truly a blessing.

 

 

 

Rubber Coated Agility Contact Equipment

Tuesday, October 11th, 2011

Spot On Agility is lucky enough to own two full trial-sized rings of amazing agility equipment. As with all equipment, if you want to have the very latest, it requires a bit of updating from time-to-time.


Since we mainly use the equipment for ourselves and our classes, we intentionally decided not to jump on the band wagon of rubberized contacts. Not because we didn’t believe in them, but rather we knew we had the luxury of hanging back to let others be the test-cases as the various options and methods were established.


Now that we’ve had an opportunity to watch, listen and view the various samples and types, we’d like to share the two methods that we have ultimately decided on.


The two directions we went with were:


  1. Making our own rubber skins and putting them on a wood surface for the teeter.
  2. Pre-made rubber skins on an aluminum sheet for the dog walk.
  3. The a-frame…well, we haven’t decided yet.

Why two different methods? Well, the main things we looked at were:

  • Safety for the dogs
  • Durability (long lasting with quite a bit of use)
  • Cleanliness (easy to clean as well as little to no rubber pellet loss)
  • Ease (to put the product on our existing frame-work)
  • Cost
  • Weight of the final product (preferably so 1 person could reasonably move each piece)

Teeter – Making our own Rubber Skins:

We went with this route as we like the wood plank on the teeter. Our concern with an aluminum skin would be that it would be too light, too thin, potentially bounce more upon impact and not absorb impact and vibration as well as the wood. Since most of our clients are beginner dogs, their first experience on a teeter was our priority. Sure, we might be over-thinking this, but since the teeter already has an aluminum frame, we decided to error on the conservative side.

As for price, this was the least expensive option. The kit came in a box with all of the main supplies. We did need to buy a postage scale (exact measurement and weight is very important for this option) and we visited the dollar store to get a few inexpensive measuring cups.

Dog Walk – Pre-Made Rubber Skins on Aluminum Sheet:

The frame on our dog walk, although aluminum, is VERY solid and has little to no bounce and/or vibration, so this left us with several options to consider. Since the dog’s safety isn’t in jeopardy,  we had the luxury of focusing on the comfort of the handlers (i.e. equipment movers).

Since rubber pellets can add quite a bit of weight to a contact, we decided to compensate by switching to custom-made aluminum skins (which are light-weight) with a rubber skin on top that includes rubber slates. While this option was a bit more expensive, it will definitely be an asset and allow one handler to ‘easily’ move each ramp on their own if need be.

The A-Frame – So Many Options:

The a-frame posses a few challenges. While this is a SOLID piece of equipment for the dogs, it is one heck of a mountain-like mass for handlers to setup and move! Rubberized a-frames are great, but most people don’t realize that the rubber can add up to 48 pounds of weight…PER SIDE!

Until we can come up with a way to address the weight issue (remember, our goal is that ideally 1 person would be able to set it up), we’re going to hold off on revamping this piece of equipment. At this point, we could do the aluminum skins with the rubber, but the equipment would still be incredibly heavy. To compensate, we’ll need to come up with a system with wheels or another means to move and setup the a-frame.

We’ll keep you updated!

As a resource, we purchased all of our supplies for this venture from Max200.

Don’t Volunteer, Instead Embrace Teamwork

Monday, June 27th, 2011

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How some people never volunteer, how others always volunteer, how to treat volunteers, volunteer perks such as meals, raffles, special crating, valet parking, vouchers, priority entries and more.

 

For weeks I’ve been trying to verbalize my thoughts on volunteering (yes, really weeks!). I’ve asked dozens of respected agility competitors their thoughts on the topic, I listened for hours to all sides of the issue and I drew from my own personal experiences as a judge and a volunteer.

 

And from the plethora of information came an amazing epiphany...agility has outgrown ‘volunteerism’ and needs to embrace the future of Teamwork.

 

Volunteering:

 

Volunteering implies sacrifice and it implies doing something for someone else. This made sense when agility was young, evolving and just a small handful of volunteers were available. This core group of volunteers worked religiously to showcase the new sport, the activities, put on trials and to share the passion and possibilities of what agility could be. There is no doubt that these folks DID sacrifice!

 

But let’s face it, we’re in the 2nd+ decade of agility and there are now THOUSANDS of handlers across the world who actively participate each and every day. Given the sheer magnitude of the sport and the corresponding events, agility can no longer be a sport where a few do all of the work.

 

And so I hereby give notice to everyone that as of today, the era of the agility volunteer is officially extinct. It’s gone. They’re burnt out and well, they’ve retired. The volunteers have done their time and so now we need to move on…but to what…?

 

Teamwork:

 

Teamwork is work performed by a team towards a common goal.

 

Teamwork is the base of agility. It’s the heart and soul of what we do with our dogs and when teamwork occurs, my dog and I are successful. So it should be no surprise that teamwork was the inspiration, my epiphany and ultimately my solution when looking to solve the issue on how to move forward from the extinction of our agility volunteers.

 

It starts like this:

 

First, (and most importantly) we need to break down ALL of the agility tasks into much smaller and manageable pieces. For example, leash running – why not allow and encourage 2 different people to job-share the task and give a small portion of their time? This lets one person start and another take over after they have completed their run.

 

Second, encourage friends and/or groups to ‘sponsor’ or oversee to a position in a designated class. For example, have ‘Dog Training Club A’ or ‘Group of Friends B’ be responsible for filling the timer position in Novice. What’s different is that the position can be flexible and be rotated among that group’s members during the class. The benefits are that the group trains each other, they maintain flexibility, no one person is ‘stuck’ there and no one is yelling “I need a timer…”. Additionally, this spreads the workload out among everyone so no one is overtaxed.

 

Here’s a thought…just imagine if each team had 9 people on it and there were 16+ teams available to help out at a trial. The teams could be pre-assigned to a class/responsibility and it’s members would work for only a very short period of time. How simple is that!

 

Third, we’ve moved into a new era in agility and there needs to be an understanding that EVERYONE who participates in agility is a part of the agility community team. And, each team member must contribute their small part (remember, the volunteers who did everything are now extinct!).

 

Fourth, we need to think differently! We’ve outgrown the volunteering system and accompanying bribery programs that went along with it. Sure, they were nice (I love food and raffles!), but in most cases, they didn’t fully solve the problem or address the real issue.

 

The Real Issue:

 

We all agree that agility is a team sport. And I KNOW most of us would gladly offer assistance to a dog having an agility issue…so why are we hesitant to offer assistance to a human when they have an agility trial need…?

 

Frankly, it’s time the teamwork overflowed and extended outside the course. Everyone needs to realize that the agility community IS a team and the active participation of ALL of it’s team members is not only needed, but required. Why required? Well, each team member adds to the event!  Don’t fool yourself into thinking it’s only about having warm bodies to fill the chairs, because it’s so much more than that. It’s about sharing member’s expertise, their spirit, uniqueness, quality the love of our dogs and much more. It’s about supporting all of the handlers and the dogs who have made the agility journey.

 

So the next time you’re at a trial, why not get a group of friends together and manage an agility job amongst yourselves or suggest a job-share on a trial task. Remember, it’s all about the teamwork!

Tunnel Padding for Holder Straps

Sunday, April 10th, 2011

Whenever I see a great and inexpensive agility idea, I jump at the chance to take a picture and share.

This one is ingenious and simple!

Problem:

  • Tunnel holder straps can potentially ‘digging in’ between the tunnel ridges or crush the tunnel entrance, potentially creating a hazard for your dog.

Solution and Benefits:

  • Use a sample piece of carpet between the tunnel and strap.
  • The carpet secures the straps.
  • The tunnel retains its shape while staying in place.
  • The bottom of the carpet helps prevent the tunnel from sliding/slipping away.
  • Reuses an item that would normally end up in the garbage.
  • Inexpensive!
  • It works!!!!

This ideas was seen at a trial in Colorado Springs, CO and in Casper, WY.

If you have an idea you’d like to share with other clubs and/or trainers, please contact us.

copyright Lisa M. Selthofer

 

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Over the last year, I’ve seen some great creativity when it comes to deciding on which classes to offer in an agility trial, the running order and some amazing flexibility when dealing with smaller trial locations and high entries.

If your club is looking for some suggestions, check out the two proven methods below:

Problem: The trial location is limited in size (maybe there is only room for 1 ring?), so crating and parking are a challenge.

Solution: Consider running Excellent JWW and then Excellent Standard followed by Open Standard, Novice Standard and then revert back to JWW Open and then Novice JWW. This gets the Excellent people in and out while freeing up space for crating and parking as well as allows Open and Novice people to check-in around noon! The major benefit is that nobody sits around thanks to this schedule and as mentioned previously, this works easily work with a 1-ring trial.

As a side note, this option works great with both a 1-judge and 2-judge trial. If your entries warrant two judges, consider splitting the Excellent classes so one judge is doing JWW and the other is doing Standard. You may also want to coordinate course design to ensure the Standard and JWW rings are well nested. Maybe judge-one designs all courses for one day and judge two designs all courses for the second day.

Problem: Friday ‘Excellent Only’ entries are small or more entries would help to justify costs for the day.

Solution: Consider offering Excellent JWW, Excellent Standard and ALL of FAST (Nov, Open & Excellent). This is a great way to increase your entries and allows dogs of all levels to ‘warm up’ on Day 1 of the trial.

May we also suggest a running order that consists of running Excellent JWW first, Excellent Standard second and the FAST classes last. This running order may draw more Novice and Open FAST participants since they won’t have to take the afternoon off of work.

Do you have a suggestion to add or would like to share a tip with other clubs? Please contact us and you could be a guest blogger!

copyright Lisa M. Selthofer 2011

YES, the 1/2 Day Agility Trial is Possible!

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

 

 

See the empty chair* pictured on the right? That symbolizes my home on weekends when I’m off showing at an agility trial. Imagine the possibilities…I could be at home reading a book, holding my husband’s hand or snuggling a dog.

 

Don’t get me wrong, I love agility.

 

There are times I spend hours thinking about a particular agility-thing, entire evenings spent enjoying it with my students and 4-day weekends watching it while judging. That’s my choice and not only am I comfortable with it, but most importantly, I love it.

 

However, as a competitor, the continued trend of spending entire days sitting around at an AKC agility trial for more than 5 hours waiting to do a 60 second run is not one of the things on my ‘love-to-do-list’. To be honest, it easily falls onto my “absolutely-can’t-stand-to-do-page”.

 

Why? Well, if it were just me hanging around it would fall into the “who-cares-area” of life, but it’s not. It’s about my dogs. It’s about life-balance for all of us. It’s about being well-rounded as individuals. It’s about doing laundry, spending time with family, weeding the garden or simply cleaning the house.

 

Specifically, I’m not fond of having to get my dogs to a location by 7:00 a.m., then asking (no, it’s more like requiring) them to wastefully wait around for 3+ hours until their first run, followed by more mind-numbing downtime for up to an additional 5+ hours until their second run, leaving by 4:30 p.m. (if we’re lucky), driving home, getting in late, snarfing down dinner, sneaking in a few chores and then doing it all over again the following day.

 

Sure, I could use my trial-waiting-time to practice tricks, do some training, visit with folks, network and assist with the trial event (and believe me, I do all of those things). But imagine a trial where I wasn’t required to devote my entire day waiting around while my other life obligations and commitments were asked to take a back seat to my hobby.
Specifically, I miss the days where AKC, Excellent classes (all of them) were run first (there were a few trials where I was back home by 10:30 a.m.). Open folks arrived around 10:30-11 and Novice folks showed up around noon. Sure, the Open & Novice folks might have to wait around for a bit until it was time for their classes, but they weren’t required to arrive at O’-too-early AND stay until O’-last-dog. The schedule I mention here is far more dog-friendly, ensures handler-happiness and most importantly, life outside of agility goes on as usual.

 

I’ve heard the argument that this type of schedule makes it harder to obtain volunteer workers. Honestly, I say bull-hockey! Why? Well, the other schedule (where Excellent is first and last of the day) falsely assumes that because Excellent handlers (the largest group) are forced to wait around, they are more likely to volunteer. First, you can’t force anyone to volunteer. Second, they already feel they’re making personal sacrifices just by attending for the lengthy day and third, they’re hyper-aware of the already looming time commitment and simply don’t want to take away from their personal lives any more than they have to.

 

Case in point, if on Saturday small dogs run first and there is a separate walk-thru for the large dogs (after small dogs are done). The large dog people won’t show up first thing because they know they’re already going to be there until the end of the day. Even showing up late, that means they’re probably going to be forced to hang out for 7+ hours. Since they arrive later, that means they won’t be available when the first dog enters the ring. Vice versa with the small dogs. They were forced to arrive early and so when their runs are completed (6+ hours later), they want to go home and so they’re not available to help at the end of the day.

 

The other argument says that there are more conflicts when Excellent is running in both rings. Again, this is not necessarily true since there are just as many, if not more, conflicts when Novice and Open are running opposite Excellent. At the very least, there is more pressure since on Novice and Open since those tend to be smaller classes and if you miss your run there, you may be out of luck if they are already moving on to the next course change. And who wants to be rushed with a young dog? (hint: nobody!)

 

No matter what the running order, there is no doubt that volunteers are hard to come by and conflicts will arise. However, forcing people to stay and volunteer just isn’t the answer because this doesn’t create the pay-it-forward, feel-good moment everyone wants in agility.

 

I’m an optimist and while this might come back to bite me in the butt (especially if I’m judging and need ring crew), but I think we should allow people to make their own decisions and handle their time as they see fit. People may surprise you. One day someone might not be in a rush and so they stay until the end. Another day they may have an obligation. Either way, it’s a win-win for everyone involved and we’re encouraging and facilitating BALANCE.
Whatever the running order, the days of spending 10 hours a day waiting for two agility runs needs to end. Nobody (or dog) can remain sharp, fun and relaxed for that amount of time and  who wants to be held captive at an agility trial. (again, nobody!)

 

* If you like the chair pictured, go to this link to learn how to do it yourself.

 

A Well Run Trial – From a Judge’s Perspective

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

Ever wonder what makes an agility trial a success in a judge’s eye? Well, some of the things may surprise you!

It’s the Little Things:

  • Water in my hotel room when I arrive. Snacks are always nice, but water after a stale flight or long car ride is great! Especially since airport security won’t let me bring my own any more…
  • Timely reimbursement of airfare. Please remember that I judge for quite a few clubs and diligently shop for cheap flights. As a courtesy, please send reimbursement within 7 days so that I’m not left funding several clubs and postponing inexpensive airfare purchases for other clubs on my schedule.
  • A pre-paid hotel is very thoughtful and appreciated. It ensures I have a room (yes, hotels have been known to give my room away) and simplifies billing.
  • Course Builder Copy Pick-Up – I love when someone picks up my course builder copies at the hotel each morning. This means I get to sleep in for just a bit more after a long flight the day prior or I may actually have time to eat breakfast. This is so much better than arriving at the trial site early and then sitting around for 45 minutes while the first course of the day is being built.
  • Please have a specific judge’s table located in a place where exhibitors won’t leave their dog treats or stare over our shoulder while we’re checking paperwork.
  • Help me so I don’t have papers everywhere. For example, a plastic 3-drawer bin is WONDERFUL! One drawer is for Course Builder copies so they can come pick up at their leisure, another bin is for catalogs that need to be checked and another bin is where the already checked sheets are stored until the end of the day.
  • Lunch – you may find this hard to believe, but I’m so busy I often forget to eat, don’t know where to go or feel I can’t take the time. Having someone who is in charge of my lunch is an amazing help. Early on they ask me when I would like to eat, they tell me what my options are and they bring the items to the judge’s table so that I can sit and eat while checking my catalog or just sit between classes. This is a small indulgence, but is so very much appreciated and I’m very grateful for the help.
Ring Crew:
  • A Ring Captain is my life-saver! This is the person who gathers the ring crew (so I don’t have to blindly yell for them) and ensures they are trained on their job.
  • FAST Class & Timers – Pretty please have one knowledgeable/experienced person to oversee and/or train the timer & scribe for this class. I want them to be successful since this class can be weird, it requires time changes and a lot happens in a short period of time. I’m not able to help them and judge the dog in the ring at the same time – I need your help.
  • Course Builders – I love when my course builders are entering the ring when the last dog is departing. It’s a comfort to know I’m leaving the ring and they’re taking over and it gives me an idea as to how long I have before I’m needed back in the ring.

Judge’s Dinner:

  • Let’s do dinner early. I’d like to get back to my hotel and relax after a long day of judging.
  • A restaurant with local flavors and character is always special. I’m visiting you and want to get to know about your area of the country.
  • Keep it to less than 10 people. More than 10 and I don’t get to visit with everyone and I won’t have an opportunity to make friends with anyone.
  • Don’t talk agility dog! Tell me what you do outside of agility, tell me about the area, tell me a funny tidbit about yourself, talk about anything, except your run (I was there), your training issues (my brain may not think technical after a full day of judging), etc. unless I ask (I’m engaging you in conversation to get to know you). Then it’s okay to answer, but keep it short and move on to a non-agility topic as soon as possible.
Exhibitors:
  • Please be nice. I really DO want you to have terrific runs.
  • If you’re not happy, it is contagious. I feel it, your dog feels it, others see it and your performance will suffer.
  • I judge because I like dogs and the sport of agility. We have that in common.
  • You can never go wrong with words like Ma’m, Sir, Please, Thank You and When you have a moment…
  • Please don’t leave dog treats or your coffee on the judge’s table. The club already has snacks for me and I don’t want to spill liquid on your scribe sheet.
  • Unless you have a question about a call, please don’t come talk dog or hang over my shoulder while I’m doing paperwork (like course time calculations, checking scribe sheets or checking the catalog). Trust me, this is the official stuff that you want to ensure has 100% of my attention!
  • If you don’t like something, you can NICELY ask me about it (see above sentence that says “You can never go wrong using words like….”)
  • Please don’t ask me a question when I’m in the bathroom stall. I feel like a hostage (especially if you stand outside the door) and I really just want 10 private seconds to myself.
  • When you come to talk to me, be sure to give me some background so I know what you’re asking. If asking about a run, please tell me what class. If you have an equipment concern please tell me what ring, what equipment and then the issue.
  • Remember you always have a choice. If you don’t like an angle to an obstacle, you can change your dog’s approach. If you don’t like a course, you don’t have to run it. If you decide you’re going to have fun, you WILL, etc.
  • Just like you, I’m not perfect.
  • Just like you, I never stop learning.
  • I left my home, my family, my dogs, gave up time with them, sat through a cramped flight or a long drive to be here with you and your dog. Let’s make it a good time and smile together.

Judge’s Gifts – continued

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

The discussion on judge’s gifts has been interesting and I’ve had comments both here and on Facebook.

Before I continue on with this topic, I want to make it very clear that I believe gifts are optional and should only be given if heartfelt. In my opinion, no one should ever feel obligated to give a judge’s gift (or any gift for that matter).

But, I have had several people inquire about judge’s gift ideas and ask what some of my favorites were, so this blog is dedicated to those who are looking for ideas. However, since a well run trial is the best thing a judge can ask for, my next post will be dedicated to tidbits on making that happen.

One of the gifts I appreciate most is bottled water in my room upon check-in. I know this sounds goofy, but with security being so tight, you can’t bring water, buying it at the airport is not always convenient and purchasing it at the hotel requires loads of change and it’s expensive! It’s always a treat to have a ‘care package’ with water, a few snacks, chapstick, handwarmers or cooling scarves (in extreme weather). But, mainly bottled water.

Over the last few years, gift cards or gift certificates have been hot items. The increased security and charges for checking bags have definitely moved things in that direction. I have to say, I certainly don’t mind, especially since Dan and I both judge which often means we get 2 gift certificates for the same place.

Gift Certificates/Gift Cards & What We Purchased:

* Clean Run – thanks to these great gift certificates I have a portable dog crate, the latest and greatest training books and/or DVDs and waterproof gloves. The last few years I saved my certificates up and bought myself an a-frame mover. This was a splurge since I would have never bought it for myself.

* LL Bean – I’ve gotten this a few times over the last decade and each time I’ve bought myself a wonderful set of flannel sheets. Another splurge and so cozy on cold nights! Gift Cards

 

* VISA Gift Cards – Boy have I come to appreciate these! On a recent trip, Dan and I hit an amazing specialty store and Dan got to spend his gift on exotic cigars – a real treat for him. This past weekend, I went to Bath & Body Works and took full advantage of a buy 1 get 1 free sale and stocked up on lots of girly scents for summer. We also used VISA gift cards to jump start our front porch project, something we enjoy daily!

Some of the other gifts we’ve received or I’ve heard of are handmade items. Usually there is a club member who specializes in a particular hobby or they have a particular vendor. Items pictured:

* the handmade clock featuring a Dalmatian was my first judge’s gift.
* the Dalmatian print was another great gift
* the handmade ceramic cup was actually made for me by one of my students and I just love it. You can tell it was made from the heart.
* the moose tile was a gift from Alaska, very fitting!
* the beautiful multi-colored glass bowl was actually a wedding gift. Isn’t it amazing?
* Breed Specialties often give neat gifts. The Newfoundland’s gave me a pewter dish, the Weims a crystal wine stopper and the Dobermans a Dobe coin.
* from the southwest a pottery item with paw prints and Dan received the Chocolate Lab tile box.

Other gifts received:
* stained glass agility picture
* agility frame
* gift certificate to one of the show vendors
* personalized coffee cup
* painted ceramic plate of our dog in the weave poles
* personal lunch cooler
* personalized soft briefcase
* personalized travel blanket
* handmade travel pillow
* club coins
* gifts for our dogs (stuffed animals, leashes, collars, etc.)

Judge’s Gifts – Necessary or Nice?

Sunday, May 30th, 2010

I was recently at a table where an AKC Agility Judge announced that they would never return to judge for a club if they didn’t receive a judge’s gift to thank them for their services. Another judge at the table had the opposite opinion and felt their fee was more than sufficient.

It has been my experience that judges, exhibitors and clubs each have a pretty clear opinion on the topic.

I’ve noticed that those who come from Conformation generally believe a judges gift is tradition and a must. On the flip side some clubs such as the Board of the Puget Sound Labrador Retriever Club firmly believe that agility judges make enough in payment and they won’t authorize a judge’s gift (except for club merchandise).

While I don’t agree with PSLRA’s reasoning, my personal belief is that a gift for judging isn’t a requirement. But I will admit that it is a NICE surprise and has never failed to put a smile on my face! Ironic since the last sentence in Wikipedia’s definition of Gift is “By extension the term gift can refer to anything that makes the other happier…especially as a favor, including…kindness.”

I have to admit, I have all of the gifts I’ve received over the years. For my very first assignment, they gave me a beautiful handmade wood clock with a hand painted picture of a Dalmatian – I love that gift and it has sat prominently in the living room of every house I’ve lived in.

There are many treasured gifts throughout my house and the cost of the item isn’t what makes a gift great.

For example, a club that Dan was judging for contacted me to get pictures of his dogs. Their timing was great because we had just received professional photos back of Burton. The club used the picture to create a personalized coffee mug which Dan uses every day (and I’m not allowed to touch ). The thoughtfulness of a gift is what makes it so special.

So, I’m curious…what do most people think?

Lisa